well, for me.....my sister's and i often have issues. we're all close now, but they are 10yrs older than me, so there's always been tension, as far as i'm concerned, when three of us are together. like the odd one out kinda thing. and whenever one of us is mad at the other, we phone the other to bitch about it.....but nothing major.
my inlaws drive me nuts.
we live one hour away from them. we've had our 'run-in's' , that's for sure.
when i had my first baby, it was their first grandchild, and they spent every waking moment with her. well, we then moved on hour away, and in that time, i had my 2nd child, which was at the same time my husband's brother and his wife had their 1st baby. well since that kid has been born, my kids apparently dropped off the face of the earth. i can't even get them to babysit........ever. they've never had my 2nd daughter alone, not for an hour, not for a day, not for a night. they rarely see my 1st daughter anymore at all....but see the other grandaughter 3-4 times a week. they babysit for free, drop everything to see her....and when we come for a visit, my mother-in-law phones the brother-in-law and asks him to bring their daughter over too.
i call this phenomenon "stella-fest" 'cause the kid's name is stella, and she practically comes out all propped up on a princess pillow when she arrives by horse and carriage! lol
i remember one christmas we went there in the morning, after our presents were opened, and an hours' drive. well, my youngest who was almost 3yrs old, was having typical meltdowns by the time dinner rolled around. well, since my brother-in-law and his wife live in town, they showed up right at dinner with stella.....who had just woken from a nap, and was fresh as can be. well, here's my kid, whining away, and recieving comments like "someone's sure cranky isn't she?"......"what's the matter with her?".........while talk of stella went something like this "wow...look at the ball of sunshine we have over here! what a joy she is on christmas day!"
oh puke!!!!!!!!!
anyways,.......this will be forever ongoing, so i'll post more stories about it in due time.
lol