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The problem that I see being discussed here is that audiences in the US are uncomfortable with on-screen depictions of man2man sex. That's a fact that we all knew before BBM was edited for TV.
The version of BBM shown on Bravo removed the visual moments of Jack & Ennis having sex, and the profanity. Does the removal of the sex scenes mean that a first-time viewer does not understand that these two men were in love with each other?? There are other moments in the film that show the love between these two men. Does the lack of profanity change anything fundamental about who these men were? I would have to say "no" in both cases. Yes, the TV version might be missing some original details, but the story and the lessons it has to teach are still firmly intact.
Milo
I am sorry, and I am not being delberately argumentative, but if they had just removed the sexand profanity,I would have had far less of a problem.It is the fact that they removed the affection and love that was developing.That completely IMO alters the whole perspective.I love TS2 Ennis so shy, fighting and losing with a feeling he is powerless to ignore.Jack so tender and caring of him, quietly reassuring him.
Instead we get a quick glimpse and then cut to outside.The very clear, again IMO, reasoning behind this is to persuade us the viewer that TS2 is just a repeat of TS1. NO it isn't.
Also the manipulation has to be deliberate.They show the whole reunion kiss, so obviously dont have a problem,with 2 men kissing, also they show the two in the motel, so no problem with men in each others arms.Their problem is, if they were to show TS2 in its full state, they would have to show the viewer that 2 men can have a tender love for each other not just sex.That I think was a deliberate move.They would in effect just be combining the reunion kiss and motel scene.So leaving it out makes no sense, other than blatant manipualtion.Or can middle America only cope with the 2 things separately, ie in each others arms and kissing.I find that just as offensive and also deeply patronising.If it is true, then it is just plain worrying.
So many people who disparage gays, use that sort of argument, oh it's all just sex.No it isn't and neither was BBM. Here was an opportunity to show a love that spanned 20 years, that was deeply felt by both men and yet given no chance because of societies prejudices.They could still have cutTS1 if they were worried, but left the rest and so maybe tried to educate a blinkered homophobic sector of America.
I cannot and will not condone what they did to BBM.They altered the whole slant of the film, not by removing the sex, but by removing the affecton and love.
Better not to have shown it all, than to feed the already deeply entrenched views held by some.
I am a .married woman watching this, so I cannot imagine how offensive it would have been to gay men