I agree with a lot of what has been said. It is wonderful no matter what sex or orientation to find a true passionate, soul mate. I suspect my view is coloured by my own inertia.
So I Will be more specific, to find the love is beyond lucky it is amazing, beyond what any words can articulate.To let that love go because of societies dictates, or some deep routed fear, or just plain cowardice is to live a life that is forever partly tragic. It means you lose the ability to look forward or even live in the present.
What has gone before casts a very long shadow.You may feel you have put it all behind you, or placed it in a compartmet in your mind, never to be opened, when fate throws a curve ball and all of a sudden the past looms more clearly and more painfully than ever before.
It is impossible to insulate against this happening, because the fates dictate that it will appear in the most unexpected places.Therefore with no warning, once again you are thrown for a loop, and right back in the past and all the chaos that ensues.
Sometimes sleep and dreams provide the only relief.Of course one of the contradictions is, that the more upset your equilibrium becomes, the less likely comes the bliss of sleep.
So yes Jack and Ennis were lucky, but then like others, they were not quite lucky enough.It is like someone opening the door to a paradise of emotions and saying O.K you can have a quick look round, but I am not going to let you stay here.Think of it as a quick vacation.As with all things BBM I am now unsure whether I am talking of myself or Ennis and Jack.
For me the phrase, you can run but you cannot hide, is so apt.