Wow, girls, first nobody posts in the Ladies Corner, and as soon as it's closed you discuss giving birth intensively.
So I'll jump right in to the "Old Ladies" discussion, too. Like isabelle, I feel qualified. I have three children, all born the old-fashioned way. Thank god I didn't need a c-section.
Two of them were delivered without epidural. I screamed for an epidural at every childbirth, but two times I started screaming too late.
At the third childbirth I was already in the last act of labours (don't know the English expression; in German it's "pressing labours", that means that the child is actually coming) when the anesthesiologist showed up.
Midwife to Penthesilea: "Do you already have pressing labours?"
Me:"
No!" (I knew I had them, I lied to her, I wanted the epidural so badly)
Midwife to anesthesiologist: "Wait a minute. I check this first"
A minute later
Midwife to anesthesiologist: " You can go; your coming was in vain. She'll have the baby within the next 10 minutes."
And right she was.
Ed says, "Epidural - ask for it early, ask for it often
Ed is right! At my second childbirth, I started screaming (yes: screaming, not asking) for epidural the moment I reached the hospital. I swear, I literally screamed to the doorman (!) for an epidural before I told my name. This was the only childbirth I had an epidural.
Juan:
How brave by you. Men usually don't make their way through childbirth-stories.