Yeah Chrissi! These are great quotations! I completely agree with the idea that laundry is a really intimate act. And, I know this is repeating things said before... but to see both Jack and Alma doing Ennis's laundry just seems so important in terms of their status as rivals for Ennis's affection/attention/commitment. I think in the scene where we see Alma at the clothes line and Ennis's truck is seen driving towards the ranch in the distance... I think that brown and blue plaid shirt is the shirt he was wearing during TS1. And, of course, the force of the wind here combined with the laundry is huge. And, in the scene where Jack nude, washing Ennis's shirt in the stream... it just seems so important that that's one of the paired shirts at the end.
I wonder why we never see Ennis doing laundry? I mean, we see him doing other domestic things (both on Brokeback and at home with Alma... even helping wash dishes at Monroe's house), but never specifically the laundry. But, he is certainly apparently super sensitive to clothing the scent of clothing, etc. (both Alma Jr.'s sweater and the paired shirts)... so maybe he's meant to be viewed as the recipient of love... if laundry is meant to be a symbol of love/devotion... in this particular context.
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I never noticed that Jack was washing Ennis's clothes in the river too! Good observation!
And actually, when he's washing the shirt after their first sexual encounter, maybe the washing signifies cleansing and forgiveness like water has throughout various religions and stories. As in, Jack is forigiving Ennis for the denial that is soon to come and cleansing both their shirt signifies a new beginning for them, in terms of their friendship and newfound relationship which starts off as sexual tension and release, then develops into something transceding merely sex.
And Ennis as the recepient of love? Brilliant.

Maybe...hmm, not sure if this makes much sense, but in claiming something that he has lost. Losing Jack and Alma Jr. impacts him, and their clothing is the remnants of the different loves in his life.
- another thought, though I don't know if it's relevant; Jack is shirtless the second night in the tent. You'd assume it's warm but then we see Ennis rubbing his hands in front of the fire...? Lack of shirt = lack of a barrier? So he's showing Ennis that he's just as vulnerable without that protection of the shirt, and that he's "forgiven" Ennis. Hm..thoughts, anyone?
