"All this pitting of sex against sex, of quality against quality; all this claiming of superiority and imputing of inferiority belong to the private-school stage of human existence where there are sides, and it is necessary for one side to beat another side." ~Virginia Woolf, A Room of One's Own, 1929
"In this dirty-minded world, she thought, you are either somebody's wife or somebody's whore -- or fast on your way to becoming one or the other. If you don't fit either category, then everyone tries to make you think there is something wrong with you. But, she thought, there is nothing wrong with me."-- the thoughts of Jenny Fields, a character in John Irving's "The World According to Garp"