Being a responsible adult, is what you have to do, in order to take care of those you love, and those
who love and care about you. That includes everyone, from your mom to your wife and son, to Ennis.
You have to look at the whole picture. You can never be responsible as long as you are leaving any of these
people out of the picture.
You should be honest, in order to teach your son to be honest. You can not make Ennis do what is right
except by leading. He is too afraid to do it any other way. You have to be honest and fair to your wife. She should
have had the ability to seek and find a new husband. She was a good enough woman to have had a wonderful
man that would have loved and cared for her the way she deserved. You could never be happy much less, even
partially satisfied, with anyone like a Mexican Whore, (lack of understanding and connection) plus poor Randall,
he didnt deserve to be treated by you, the way Ennis treated you. You should have taken stock in what you
were really getting from Ennis. Given him an ultimatum, and see if that might have woken him up to his reality.