When I first saw the movie and every time since, never have I thought, "Gee, it was nice to see two men showing affection." I thought, Oh my God. What an absolutely beautiful love story and then I thought I was going to be sick. As I have said before and I know others have expressed, I was awe struck at the magnitude of their love and the tragedy of it.
I know Ennis knows he loved Jack. Even though it is nice to hear those three words, you can know it without hearing it. I know as a straight woman, sometimes my husband does not say he loves me as much as I would like to hear but I know without question he does. I would think that a man would have hard time saying I love you no matter what relationship they are in. Are "gay" men supposed to be more "in touch" with their feelings than straight. I found it sad that the TWO of them never said I love you, but not unbelievable. And is the case most of the time, we realize the importance of things when it is to late to do anything about it.
Emotion and erotica go hand in hand with me. How can you have one with out the other. It is different than a one night stand which is neither. That is just raw lust???