Hi BF,
First of all: thanks for the imdb link to the discussions, wow, interesting. I have read them volatile and have to read them again. Really very interesting.
About the DVD extra's: there are 6 deleted scenes. The two scenes with kay/marc (marcs leg and the canteen scene) you have seen. The other four were nice but not spectacular. The audio comments have no subs unfortunately. I don't think it's worthwhile for you to buy the DVD from Germany (you can't buy it in the US on DVD??).
Glad you liked the interviews and the discussion threads. Everybody really liked this movie. The comments were so thoughtful, and well thought out, and some different opinions for sure.
I bought the digital movie from Amazon back in March, but it's only the movie, no extras. So today I bought the DVD and just hope there are subtitles on the extras, but if not, that's ok, I'll just listen to Max talk
The phone call: wow, we really thought the same.
Ok, good. The few seconds between answering the phone and saying he couldn't talk now - Kay was saying something wonderful!
The music: I liked it, it fit to the scenes. I thought the song at the credits fit very well to marc's situation and it's a beautifull but sad song.
I don't know about the scene in the appartent, I can't remember Kay doing anything like that but I will watch with attention next time (which will be soon )
Yeah, the music was good.
Sorry I make you keep watching this over and over again just to answer my questions. I know that must be hard on you!
It's so good to have someone to talk to about this. I didn't realize I had so many questions until we started talking.