Dear, sweet Tiffany for thinking of us in your time of sorrow. I never had the distinct, I would imagine, pleasure of meeting your grandmother, although she invited me out her way several times. She and I personally discussed many things here on BetterMost, and I would like to share one, from almost exactly two years ago, on May 24, 2012, that she sent to me. These are her words of encouragement to me when I was going through a severe illness, as she was. Amazing, stupendous, unbelievable almost, that she put so many others forefront in her mind when she was going through so many unconquerable travails of her own. She was always, and WILL always, be treasured here, by all of us.
"The truth is you have to make the most of the time you have. But I have to say one thing. Stop with the self recriminations. I am sure that whatever you may have done to ascerbate the situation, it was not done willingly or knowingly. You were a victim of the lack of knowledge. You even stop your ability to feel better during the time you have. When after all, isnt that the real reason for living. No matter the length, or the lac of lenght that we may have."
Bless your heart, Tiffany, and all of her loved ones. She was a rare and precious gift to us all.
