Okay, I'm just responding to the post, it says, Let's get real here. So, lets, get real shall we? What is keeping you (and I mean you) from going out and getting your Ennis or Jack? Why are people letting their lives go by without enjoying what is a very primal source of joy. Are you afraid of getting hurt, too anxious to take a risk, or do you just not know what you're missing? It baffles me.