Of course you're right, Melissa.  I have no way of knowing anything, really, about either of them.  Which is as it should be.  I've just never thought she was a particularly nice person and all that's based on is just a gut feeling I have.  I think someone can be a great parent and good at her job, but at heart still be kind of a stone cold beotch, and I can't shake the feeling that she's pretty much all of those things.