I just wanted to comment on davidinhartford's post about the non-sexual body contact. I think that's the reason why the kissing scenes in BBM were so breathtaking because, man or woman, who among us has had that kind of experience? Maybe some would argue with me about kissing being nonsexual. Remember the funny part in that otherwise stupid movie Pretty Woman where prostitute 1 is advising prostitute 2 (Julia Roberts) NEVER to kiss clients on the mouth? Not for some health reason, but because you might fall for them, I think that's what she had in mind...