Well, who knew that a thread about two celebrities possibly having a ro- or faux-mance would turn out to be so edifying for all involved?
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I'm really touched to hear where some of the participants on the thread are coming from with their comments, and reading here has helped me to realize the position of privilege I have, though not aware of it: I get to be with kids/I want to be with kids. It's a huge part of the pleasure of my life - they really do say the darnedest things.
And believe me, with a daughter, it's not
gay men I look askance at. And just to throw out here that one of my daughter's two babysitters since birth is a 70+ year old lesbian, who has been out since time began. I love her, admire her, and trust her.
And if we were to have a poll, I'd vote for "Gyllenspoon."