OT: A bit of personal life information!

[slayers_creek_oth]

Hey all,

Please allow me to rant about....me...for a second...may answer some of the several PMs that I have recieved in the last few days...

Some of you may have noticed that I haven't been around much lately....been quiet and reserved!  Well now its time to tell...

I found out today that I am going to take part in a seemingly bitter divorce from my wife of almost 3 years.  Her lack of love and care for my son has pushed me too the edge, she left last week and I recieved divorce papers this morning...it turns out that she doesn't even want Charlie Jacob...she isn't even gonna fight for him...you have no idea how bad that hurts...

I am honestly done, was at the end of my thin rope and after the several months of simple requests such as that she actually feed the baby....I was finished!  But the worst part about it is that my 8 week old son no longer has a mother...and thats what is killing me..

So if I seem absent in the next few please know that it is for the reasons listed above...

Thanks everyone,

C

[serious crayons]

Oh my god, Chris, I am so, so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how hard that must be to have happen -- at any time, let alone with a new baby, when nothing is easy in the first place. It sounds so lame to say if there's anything we can do ... but is there?

At the very least we will be thinking of you.

Katherine

[Front-Ranger]

God, this is like a knife to the heart for me, I can't imagine what it is like for you...I'm glad CJ has you for a father though...are you sure you're wife isn't suffering from postpartum depression? It can do the strangest things. Please urge your wife not to make any rash decisions. See a counselor together if you can. I will be praying for you (in a non-denominational way)!

[Meryl]

Oh Chris, I'm so sorry to hear you're going through such a hard time!  Thanks for letting us know, and of course I'll be hoping for you and your wife to resolve things for the best.  Giant hugs to you and Charlie Jacob!

[EnnisDelMar]

Chris bud, I'm really sorry to hear that. I really hope you know that I care about you and hope for the best. You're a great person.

-Brandon

[Sashca1007]

Chris,

Real tears being shed for you here, many miles away.  It may be difficult for all of us here to put into words what we're feeling for you, but you can be sure that your BetterMost friends are here for you--let us know (specifically) how we can help.

Love from us to you and yours,

Melinda

[RouxB]

                                          

                                    

 My heart is with you

 

[vkm91941]

I'm still realing from the news..but I'm here for you my friend anytime...you KNOW that 

[Lynne]

Chris,
Damn, I am so sorry for you, for what you're going through right now.  This just sucks.  We're all here, you know, if you need to talk.  Please let us know if there's anything further we can do.  You're in my heart.
Love,
Lynne

[Lumière]

So sorry to hear about that Chris.   
Like everyone else has said, we are thinking of you!


Milli