The SNIT was added to the story and it was very passionate and affectionate, love, not just physical attraction. And the thing that really drew me to the movie (and read the story in anticipation of the movie) was the trailer with the reunion scene and Ennis' longing looks just before the reunion scene. OMG, the passion that spoke from that to me made it clear that their connection was a very deep and special one. It gave me goosebumps and still does.
Oh, I loved the SNIT - and I'm glad it was added. The funny thing is, though, that if I go strictly by the ss, I'm not sure it fits what AP describes - but I'm glad it was filmed just the way it was. I do think that it was necessary (especially for viewers who hadn't read the ss) in order to get a better sense of their relationship and their feelings. The reunion is my favorite part of the movie - brilliantly done in every way - the acting, the directing, etc.
I guess I'm tallking more about the second half of the movie, after the reunion, as has been mentioned. I think Jeff gave a great example. Throughout all those many years there had to have been some really happy, joyful moments between them, and I don't think it would have detracted from the point Ang Lee was trying to make to include just one, and I'm sure he could've done it in a way that wasn't overly mushy or corny.
The next day I asked her what she thought of the movie and she said 'it was so-so'.
I nearly keeled over, couldn't believe what she said. That was the first time I realised this movie was not for everyone to get.
OMG, I know everyone has different tastes - but that I just do not understand at all! It's so hard for me to believe someone could walk away from that movie and not feel that they had been through a life-changing experience! Ah, well, I guess that's why places like this this were created!
