Author Topic: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION  (Read 38770 times)

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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #70 on: April 24, 2015, 01:38:23 pm »
If I could push a button and make telemarketers and door-to-door solicitors disappear, I would gladly do that!  :laugh:

Well, there used to be a "button" for telemarketers. It was called the "Do Not Call List." I don't know whatever happened with that.  ???

Let be, let be.
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #71 on: April 24, 2015, 03:08:28 pm »

Let be, let be.

I agree.  BUT Jeff, I'm not surrendering, just agreeing to a truce.  :)   
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #72 on: April 24, 2015, 03:46:40 pm »
I agree.  BUT Jeff, I'm not surrendering, just agreeing to a truce.  :)   

I was referring only to my mention of the "Do Not Call List," which was sort of beside the point.
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #73 on: April 24, 2015, 07:53:33 pm »
I was referring only to my mention of the "Do Not Call List," which was sort of beside the point.

You have used "Let be.  Let be," in the past seeming to suggest that we all lighten up and back off.  That is what I thought you meant here, and I thought it was a good idea.  I honestly don't understand what you mean by referring it to the Do Not Call List.  I was worried that the thread was getting perilously close to what you once referred to as a train wreck in slow motion, inevitable in outcome.  But it is NOT inevitable.  We CAN put on the brakes and stop in time to chug off in another direction.  I still believe in keeping the arousal level high, but I am not the "x-man: conflict junkie" of old. 
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #74 on: April 24, 2015, 08:47:31 pm »
I meant that I thought my reference to the "Do Not Call" list was sort of beside the point, so let it alone. Don't go there. No need to follow up.
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #75 on: April 24, 2015, 11:39:32 pm »
I usually don't like washing gay dirty laundry in public, but this is too good to pass by.  It is a delightful parody of a type of gay man known to us all--the "bitchy queen."  I don't know about you, but I have a hard time dealing with them.  Enjoy.

https://vimeo.com/109852915
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #76 on: April 25, 2015, 10:10:16 am »
I have added the below paragraph to my first, introductory posting to this blog site.  If you haven't seen the interview I urge you to do so.

25 April 2015
I hope you all have had the chance to see the Bruce Jenner interview (link below)  I said in my posting above that I was talking about the way it used to be for transgender people, but probably is not now.  The Jenner interview reinforces my belief that it has indeed changed.  I only wish my father had had a chance to see it.

http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/bruce-jenner-im-woman/story?id=30570350

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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #77 on: April 25, 2015, 10:57:00 am »
I have added the below paragraph to my first, introductory posting to this blog site.  If you haven't seen the interview I urge you to do so.

25 April 2015
I hope you all have had the chance to see the Bruce Jenner interview (link below)  I said in my posting above that I was talking about the way it used to be for transgender people, but probably is not now.  The Jenner interview reinforces my belief that it has indeed changed.  I only wish my father had had a chance to see it.

http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/bruce-jenner-im-woman/story?id=30570350

I did happen to see it. Bruce was great. However, I was stunned that people are still so ignorant that Diane Sawyer felt the need to explain basic facts like transgender people aren't (necessarily) gay.

I wrote a long profile of a transgender woman fashion model 22 years ago for the New Orleans' daily paper, and that TV segment didn't have anything in it that wasn't in that long-ago story. Except, of course, a famous person coming out on national TV.

I was inspired to write my story after seeing "The Crying Game," so that's how long ago that was.



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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #78 on: April 25, 2015, 11:26:55 am »
However, I was stunned that people are still so ignorant that Diane Sawyer felt the need to explain basic facts like transgender people aren't (necessarily) gay.

You might be even more stunned to learn that there are sexual minorities who don't understand the difference either.
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Re: X-MAN AGAINST GAY TELEVISION
« Reply #79 on: April 25, 2015, 11:42:50 am »
Or the issue of surgery and how that's sort of irrelevant to a lot of trans people. I said as much in my article 22 years ago. I guess I'm just huffy because shouldn't my article have swept the nation and educated the entire population a long time ago?

The friend who was visiting works in medical records at a hospital. She said the hospital classifies people as male or female based on their genitalia. So if a post-op trans woman gets prostate cancer, the hospital can't deal with it and maybe insurance doesn't pay for it or something.

My response was, why don't they just make a rule that if a body part is in your body they treat it regardless of your gender? Oh no, they could never pass a rule like that, she said, it would just be too big and overwhelming to deal with. I said, for god's sake, Obamacare is overhauling the entire medical industry in major, major ways. I'm sure they can find some way to change this particular rule when the solution seems so obvious.