And I don't believe in the correlation b/w hands or feet and penis size. I (briefly, lol) dated a guy who was 6'4 and had massive hands and feet............and that's about it.
I love me some big hands and feet, so your former beau sounds yummy to me. I've never been a size queen...in the groin department, that is!
That was interesting to read the percentages regarding women and their attitudes to fellatio. I have grown up among women who find the physical particulars of intimacy with men to be off-putting or awkward at best, though they value the emotional connection to be had there. So it's fascinating for me to encounter women who are very enthusiastic about the gritty, sexual details of male attraction, because it's so like my own appreciation that I, as a gay man, have for other men.
Since we're being so open in this thread, and the subject of oral eroticism has been broached, I thought I'd share a curious feature of my fantasy life with you guys. I identify as a gay man, but have been known to have the occasional het fantasy from the time I hit puberty. And the fantasy activity that appeals to me most in thinking of women is performing cunnilingus. There is an air of submission here, and of a focus on pleasuring this other person, that I find quite alluring somehow. It's nothing like an obsession...I feel I could live my life quite happily without experiencing this activity (in fact, I've only ever kissed females). But if I ever found myself with a woman, this is what I would be most curious to try.
So sexuality is more fluid, I think, than society generally admits. I wonder, for example, if some straight men might have the fleeting fantasy of servicing another man? I think if our society were less hung up on labels of sexual categorization, we might see more experimentation, and people following their hearts' desire as opposed to social dictates. It might make for an infinitely more interesting world...
Scott