Author Topic: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill  (Read 1336176 times)

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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4080 on: October 20, 2007, 10:51:41 am »
If not this time, the next. It's definitively gonna happen, and the sooner she starts getting her affairs in order, the better. This has been going on for a long time - possibly years.
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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4081 on: October 20, 2007, 10:53:59 am »
If not this time, the next. It's definitively gonna happen, and the sooner she starts getting her affairs in order, the better. This has been going on for a long time - possibly years.

sounds like she has gotten used to it being this way....

hard for you though isn't it? I would not know what to say after a couple of months of it!

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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4082 on: October 20, 2007, 11:05:29 am »
I don't pass judgement anymore. Just lend a sympathetic ear. It'll be her decision, her pace ... but I believe she's ready. It's not the first time she's asked about the basement apartment, but she's talking about making plans, seeing a lawyer, so I believe she's just about ready this time.
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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4083 on: October 20, 2007, 11:07:05 am »
I don't pass judgement anymore. Just lend a sympathetic ear. It'll be her decision, her pace ... but I believe she's ready. It's not the first time she's asked about the basement apartment, but she's talking about making plans, seeing a lawyer, so I believe she's just about ready this time.

you are a good friend.

I am fixing to go ride with my friend....maybe that will cheer me up a bit!  ;)

you have a good time with your game and uploading and I will talk to you later

XXX

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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4084 on: October 20, 2007, 11:12:39 am »
Awright - toodles!
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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4085 on: October 21, 2007, 07:47:15 am »
Bonjour! did Mimma go home or is she still on the couch?

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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4086 on: October 21, 2007, 07:47:27 am »
Bonjour Jess

Mimma's basically moving in.

Spent most of the day here yesterday (had herself 2 long naps on the couch), left afound 10:30 last night, then came back to spend he night in the basement bedroom. It is serious.

Now how is Lilly gonna survive this seperation? - 25 years together is a looong time.
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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4087 on: October 21, 2007, 07:49:58 am »
jeez, I am sorry. How are you with it? You are kinda in the middle aren't you? I mean they are BOTH your friends.

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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4088 on: October 21, 2007, 07:57:28 am »
More of a Mima guy - we are sisters after all - share tastes, even clothes preferences. Lilly needs all the attention all the time and it's her way or no way - plus she still smokes (Mimma quit a while back, but her clothing still reeks). And there are more negatives that I'll not get into.

However, that being said, it's not easy living with anyone, when you've been alone most of your life. Just how much will she (Mimma) be IN my life if (which seems likely, right now) she moves in downstairs.
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Re: The Studs 'n Spurs Bar & Grill
« Reply #4089 on: October 21, 2007, 08:08:49 am »
yeah, I suspect at least short term she is gonna want a lot of your time and energy...will she pay rent? you could stick that back or pay off the house a bit quicker.

Will you set a specific length of time she can stay or is it open ended?