From Jake Is Huge by Chris Heath, GQ Magazine, May 2010, page 111:
Between courses at the Ravagh Persian Grill in Manhattan....(continues)
What were you scared of?
"It seems to me that there are some people who go, 'All right, I'm grabbing the bull by the horns. Let's do this...,' and there are some people who it takes a while to figure out. It's an everyday struggle to be able to go, I'm going to follow my own instincts--I'm going to try and hear my own heart, regardless....' We're getting pretty deep here. I mean, there are things that I want in my life. You can hide in your work, I guess I'm saying, or you can be alive and free and live in your work. You can pretend the people that you're going to work with for however many months are going to be the family that's going to be forever. But the truth is, they're not. And no matter what relationships you make along the way--which have been occasionally really, really influential on my life--ultimately I choose all the mishegoss, and all the complication and confusions of life, which takes courage and patience to sift through. Over the temporary moment of 'Oh, I'm comforted in the womb of this family.' I choose the other. I hate to say this, but--" Gyllenhaal smiles--
"It's time to jump."