"If you're not confused here, then you really don't know what's going on." 
Actually, Gary, I'm not so confused about what is going on, or has gone on.
It's a bit sad to read about people like yourself being criticised on any forum, and the comment made in here that people should be ashamed was really to the point.
I'm not exactly a favourite of the owner of that other blog, and have been subjected to a few nasty personal comments in BM PMs that were based on assumed, but incorrect, information. I don't bear any grudge. We all have a few good, and bad, points. Some people just find it easier to judge than bother to be friends, and they are the poorer for it. If we judge and criticise others in order to feel superior, we are not better, but worse people for it.
On BetterMost, I just stick mainly with a few people who are not judgemental in any way, and are prepared to make up their own minds.
Rob
